practitioners of practical thinking will advice that you forget your adversities

practitioners striving for perfection will advice that you forgive your adversaries

I have, but understood, to forget adversities is rendering yourself as inanimate, because it denies your actual experience as a human (on account it being adverse)

I have, but realised, to forgive is not human (its perhaps divine or some other human attribute I do not have the capacity to realise, because, it some how gives one person’s understanding of an experience superior to make the other’s some how shameful without any merit given to the context of the situation; I find it easier to understand that a situation lead to the adversity, that acknowledgement of the adversity and correction and prevention is a course of action leading to sustainable recovery as opposed to forgiveness which denies such an opportunity leading to recurrance of adversity.

I rejoice, my darling, I rejoice in speaking the truth irrespective of whether the experience is an adversity or otherwise.

I rejoice, my darling, I rejoice in treating every human as a human, not unlike myself, who is but a human.

affectionately,

SumathyRamesh,

Sydney, 2 FEB 2026, 5:31pm, AEST